Overcoming Conflict (Part 1)

1 Sam 1:1-8; Matt 13:53-58; 27:46; Isa 53:3-12

The following sermon will focus on how to overcome conflict, especially as many of us are experiencing tension in our household during this pandemic.

First, we must be thankful for the Word of God. It contains raw stories of relational conflict and tension. This indicates that our God understands that our relationships can be very difficult. For example, the embarrassing story of Judah and Tamar (Gen 38) or the dysfunction in Joseph's family.

Next, we will look at two short passages that illustrate how difficult these relational conflicts can be (1 Sam 1.1-8; Matt 13.53-58). Often times, our family members frustrate us either in direct or indirect ways. From these passages, there are a few principles that can help us: (1) do not take these conflicts personally; (2) these conflicts say more about their toxic personality; (3) these conflicts have been orchestrated by God; and (4) focus more on recognizing God's character/involvement than fixing the problem.

Lastly, we will see that Jesus Christ experienced the worst of relational conflict. He was betrayed by his closest circle; he was brutally assaulted by the people of authority. Ultimately, he was unjustly punished by the wrath of God for the sake of our sin. It is important to remember that this wrath that he experienced was not from an enemy, but from his own father, with whom he has a perfect relationship. Therefore, Jesus expresses even more agony (Matt 27.46). Because Jesus experienced the worst relational conflict and has overcome it, we can find empathy and victory in him since his Spirit lives in us. We will close by reflecting upon Isa 53.3-12.